Monday, December 06, 2010

Story of I & We

Again, it has been a while since a scribbled last time. Lot of thoughts occupy mindscape but somehow could not make an effort. I just wonder how good it would be if a gadget which I could just touch can record the thoughts and ideas and produce a written output. Nevertheless, I will come back from my imaginative world to reality. Last 2-3 months have been very hectic and eventful. I have been keeping busy at work with lot of new and interesting assignments on hand. Somehow this weekend has been totally free after long time, which brought me to the blog again.

This time, I will share an observation from work life. We all work in teams and an effective teamwork is key to success in today’s hectic work environment where you chase one deadline to another and switch from one assignment to other in matter of hours. This is story of “I&We”. I have been appalled and amazed as to how well educated , well experienced industry professionals glibly use “I” in an effort to take credit while giving presentations, updating about the work to senior colleagues and discussing work output with customers without giving any regard to teamwork that behind the output/result. It looks very odd that people at workplace give a damn about the team members who have equally and at times contributed more than them to produce an output. What perturbs me is that people don’t do this because they lack communication skills or have less fluency and control on English because I am referring to MBAs from premier institutes. Such acts are demotivators to contributors and also put them off at work. It creates friction in execution of assignments and more importantly such acts create a negative environment at workplace. But seemingly a small act of weak inter personal skill creates a distress in high performance work environment. But question is why such a thing happens. Here is my take on this:
· There is unending and cutthroat competition among colleagues, there is strong drive among them to be keep stepping up the corporate ladder at any cost.
· Lack of respect and appreciation for peers and their work.
· Schools, Colleges, MBA degrees have failed in some way to teach such people small but very essential etiquettes. These are same guys who are taught to core during their preparations of Group Discussions but they forgot it the days they got admissions.
· B-Schools and corporates have failed in imparting effective soft skill training to their employees.

7 comments:

Samant said...
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Samant said...

Hi Anshuman,

This is by far the best i have read on anyone's Blog !!

This is something that i have thought about for a long time...how carefully some ppl interchange I and We !

People think by using I instead of We , we can grab the attention or reward that rightfully belongs to the team !
In US, i have seen some ppl using I instead of We.. even without a real thought of taking someone else's credit.. they just do it !

We hear so much about team work and all kinds of things.. but when it comes to using the right word - where it matters a lot.. ppl just fail to do it .. knowingly or unknowingly.

akshay said...

Good one Anshu..it really is disheartening sometimes. But i guess it all depends to a considereable extent on the Boss you see...

a good manager should be able to figure out the difference between I and We....?

Anshuman said...

@Samant - thanks that u liked the post.. I think all of us will emthaise with sentiments as it is played out day in day out
@Akshay - Good Manager is key here.. thanks for reading..

Sachin Wagh said...

Good one Anshuman....a very valid and a sensitive issue. This happens not only during presentations but, also in e-mails where you just count the number of times a person writes "I" in the sentences. But, blaming the b-schools won't help here as this in ingrained at least in the Indian system. I can say that we all have become quite insensitive. I remember NRNs words of intense competition but utmost harmony....people don't seem to be following the latter here. All of us know that ego issues exist even in the best b-schools. So, its a system mindset that needs to be changed which will positively impact the corporate, b-schools and some of the public sector as well.

Anshuman said...

@Sachin - It is definitely an ego issue and host of other ills but unfortunately it sticks with people forever...

Vaibhav dhawan said...

And the irony is that India is a so called collectivist culture as against individualist one !!!